All kids in care need foster parents like Iain and Karen. They deserve it.
I was 8 years old when I first went into foster care. I don’t remember a great deal, other than just standing there with my possessions in a black bin bag. It was all rather traumatic, and I didn’t understand why I couldn’t be with my parents.
Although I was with my older brother it was an extremely daunting experience. So much so, I ran away on the first night.
Initially I had some connection to my old life as I kept in contact with my birth parents who were separated from each other. I figured that they are still your parents, regardless of what they do.
It has taken me a long time to feel comfortable talking about it, but my dad was an alcoholic and my mum had mental health issues. Dad died when I was 11 and my mum when I was 16.
At the age of 13, I was separated from my brother and I moved into the home of Iain and Karen Cameron. I was their first foster child, but I slotted right in with their biological children.
They were there for me through the good times and the bad. And when I had a bad day, I really would have a bad day! I was carrying a lot of baggage.
I tried counselling but it wasn’t quite right for me. I would often just sit and talk with Iain. There was no judgement. He just reassured me, which made things seem better.
They really do feel like my parents. Although I don’t call them "mum" and "dad", that is what they are to me. They did for me what any normal parent does and gave me stability.
Because of this I excelled at school and became a straight A student. I honestly don’t think I would have a successful career today without Iain and Karen.
There is a certain level where you need to drive yourself, but the foundations were built by them.
Essex County Council's Fostering team has also played a big part in giving me the best style of life given my circumstances.
They paid for me to have a private tutor and would often pay for transport to see my mum. It showed me that there is always someone to support you; wanting to make you a better person.
The whole fostering experience has taught me that it doesn’t matter what kind of background a foster child comes from. You can dust yourself off and be put on the right path.
All kids in care need foster parents like Iain and Karen. They deserve it.